What are some encouraging words for kids who are struggling in school?
If your child is struggling in school, it can be hard to find the right thing to say to make it all seem okay. While we’ve all been there, it can feel like your child is alone in their struggles. Saying encouraging words can mean the difference between having a child who learns and a child who shuts down when they get to school. Even at a young age, the way a child learns to cope with difficulties will shape much of their personality and success.
Sometimes, it isn’t about being too tough or being too encouraging. You have to walk a fine line.
Remember That It Sometimes Isn’t About Words – It Is About Actions
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Encouraging Words To Say To Kids Who Are Struggling Academically
Different positive affirmations will fit into different situations. If your child needs encouraging words because they are having trouble with a specific subject (like math or reading), then you may want to try some of these affirmations:
- I can see you are really trying!
- When I was your age I struggled with…
- You’re almost there – keep working!
- I can see you tried really hard.
- As long as you give it your best effort.
- You’re really improving.
- You’re getting better!
At the same time, you don’t want to only say positive affirmations. You want to actually work with your child to help them grasp whatever subject they are struggling to understand. You can do this by working with them through problems they get wrong, going on educational websites, or talking to their teacher.
Encouraging Words To Say To Kids Who Are Struggling Socially
Sometimes kids have trouble in school not with academics, but with fitting in and making friends. This is something they need to learn, but it can be difficult for some. If your child is struggling socially, try these positive affirmations:
- I believe in you.
- You’re a great kid.
- I trust you.
- You are so funny.
- I’m so happy for you.
- You’re fun to be around.
- Being with you is so much fun!
Social struggles are tough because kids won’t always open up about them to you. You may have to do a little digging and pay attention to how they act. Regardless, it is important to remind your child just how important and loved they are.
Encouraging Words To Say To Kids Who Are Struggling Emotionally
Emotional struggles may be the most obvious or they could be the least obvious, it all depends on the child. As a parent, you need to pay attention.
- It is okay to be sad sometimes.
- Today we can do something that will make you happy.
- Everyone gets mad.
- Your feelings are valid.
When you have a child who is struggling emotionally, it may be caused by one of the two reasons above. If that is the case, then you want to use those affirmations.
How To Work These Phrases Into Your Daily Life
Positive affirmations like those listed above only work if your child sees them and believes them. You can write them on sticky notes and put them on your child’s mirror in the morning, stick them inside their backpacks, or put them into their lunch box. Mix it up every day so that your child finds it at a random time.
If you know that there is an important presentation or a test, try to put it in a place where your child will see it beforehand. Of course, children also need to hear those words, so be sure you say them. It can be hard, especially when you know your child is upset.You should also focus on reframing your child’s education. Let them know that this is only one subject, one test, one teacher, or one year. MindFinity provides parents, grandparents and caregivers a great tool for younger children and their families to connect with one another, and have fun learning together. It takes just a few minutes every day. For more information, reach out to our team today to get started.